Justine Mfulama's Blog

When you have been single for a while, it’s easy to start wondering whether or not God wants you to be with someone. After all, you have been patiently waiting, fasting, and praying for a while.  I know that first hand.For a long time, I was worried that God wanted me to be single for the rest of...

Can you relate to this scenario?  You don’t date very often and don’t really enjoy dating apps. You get on them for 2 weeks, meet 3 men and really hit it off with 1.  He is nice, ticks most of your boxes and he seems to enjoy your company just as much. You are convinced that he must be your perfe...

My boyfriend doesn’t make me happy anymore. And when I say this I say it with more love than I could ever have for him. But it’s true.  You see there used to be a time in my life, where his presence, his mood, and his commitment to me would determine how happy I was.  As a woman with a secure att...

It’s the new year and with it comes a new you, right?  If you are like most people, then you probably already made a list of things that you want to change, improve, or even completely get rid of. Like, maybe your ex?   Exactly one year ago I sent out a long email to my Newsletter explaining my g...

A soul tie is a very interesting phenomenon. It’s beautiful and edifying when the two of you are experiencing life together, but it can be painful and draining if you are not anymore. Most people know what a soul tie feels like. It’s when you feel a strong emotional, physical, or spiritual connec...

Commitment. We all want to be in a relationship where the other person commits to us. For women it makes them feel chosen and appreciated and for men, it makes them feel safe and needed.  But why does commitment matter?  Because the truth is, in today’s dating culture more and more people are rel...

As a 31-year old single Christian woman, it is very easy to get discouraged when it comes to marriage. After years of dating without any success, you start to wonder “Am I meant to be single?”.  And yes, there will be some of us that are meant to be single. Some men and women God has truly called...

When you first got together, you were so attracted to her independence and confidence. She would give you space and hang out with her friends when you weren’t available. But suddenly things have changed.  The sexy, fun girl that you met a few months ago now has turned into a needy woman and cling...

When you are single and actively dating, it can get frustrating and confusing from time to time. Because at every swipe and interaction you ask yourself “Could he be the one”. It is very easy to be so caught up in your own desire for marriage that you idolize the guy before he ever committed to y...

Soul ties are formed by having a close-knit bond with another person. Someone that you send a lot of time with, you are very close to and are emotionally, spiritually, or physically intimate with. These spiritual and emotional bods can be very intense and lead to a number of good and bad emotions...