Have you ever wondered why apologizing is so hard and painful to the one doing it? I am speaking of the real deal where YOU know what you did, why you did it and how it was not appropriate and some ancient and powerful dynamic driven by your conscience or (?) at work compels you to approach this
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01/25/2020
It was a quiet, I was tired and I decided to spend the rest of the evening reading before finally nodding off. I bid farewell to ActiveRain via my laptop and gave it permission to enter the sleep mode at its convenience. In other words, I gave it the rest of the night off. A few hours later, I he
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01/22/2020
What happens if the title of this post comes true? Is it far-fetched to entertain such a thing? I wonder. Right now home prices are high and in demand and have been some time. A Real Estate cycle is at work. In addition, rents have reached an all-time high too. Both are holding steadily and with
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01/21/2020
What does this really mean? You are not alone if you do not know even though you are familiar with it because you have heard it or even used it. The premise is that the person who is receiving the benefit wants it or you want it for them. Consequently the one giving or wanting to give it believes
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01/18/2020
I became aware of what I am about to share decades ago and went through the pros and cons of it all. However even without math the concept holds its own. It has been done, is being done and will continue because it makes sense and it appeals to a certain group of people with this mindset. Remembe
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01/17/2020
If you do not ask that is what the answer will always be i.e. NO! What we should never do but find ourselves doing more often than not is asking the question mentally within our own minds and then answering it there too making it never really come out to play and stay. I ask you: Why then are you
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01/16/2020
I discovered this dynamic called ignoring when I was a child but I didn't understand what it was or why it was or just what was it? It exposes itself as a feeling that pulls or pushes that is not pleasant when it is at work and the natural response as a child is to make a noise, do an action or w
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01/11/2020
The underlying premise of "change" is to discover and uncover our ability to do so i.e. effect a change to whatever we assign our attention to. Called cause and effect we quickly discover that we make a difference by doing something even anything and then we realize what comes next: Trial and err
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01/08/2020
All of the life experience remains personal and subjective. What I like you may not and if I am cold you may be warm. How then can we argue what we are sharing? In the world of personal truths all are correct unto themselves. Its when others get involved compromise and perhaps perspectives change
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01/04/2020
This post is just for fun so no hate mail please LOL. I was reading the Q & A which is controversial at this time and laughed when the subject of points came up. It made me remember when I was a point-addict and monitored closely points coming and going. There was a reason for it i.e. to save som
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01/02/2020