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Debbie Reynolds, C21 Platinum Properties, The Dedicated Clarksville TN Realtor-(931)320-6730 (Platinum Properties- (931)771-9070)

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Anna Hatridge
R Gilliam Real Estate LLC - Farmington, MO
Missouri Realtor with R Gilliam Real Estate LLC

I just had one of those days.  I totally enjoyed it.  However, now I am checking in at 9:30 this evening just in case I need to see someone before my first appointment at 9 in the morning.  I really wish I could go 2 days and take a break just to de-spam my mind!

Mar 22, 2015 12:39 PM
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William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

The last time was when I was on vacation in Alaska 5 years ago.  Before that was before I had my computer.

Mar 22, 2015 11:30 AM
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Margaret Goss
@Properties - Winnetka, IL
Chicago's North Shore & Winnetka Real Estate

Oh my - I can't remember any day like that in recent history!  If I were to, I would probably feel guilty, though.

Mar 22, 2015 11:05 AM
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Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

It makes me feel anxious.  I hate the thought I might be missing out on business.  At the same time I am getting better about putting off the unimportant. 

Mar 23, 2015 04:11 AM
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M.C. Dwyer
Melody Russell Team at eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Felton, CA
MC Dwyer-Santa Cruz Mountains Property Specialist

Yes, I occasionally go a day without using my computer.    I usually feel a mixture of guilt and liberation.     Vacations are another story - I have a wonderful associate who handles almost all of my business then.

Mar 23, 2015 03:25 AM
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JoAnn Moore
The Mortgage Market of Delaware - Georgetown, DE
Home Loans in Delaware

Yes, it feels liberating. I enjoy a Saturday or Sunday quite often doin this. Plus having the television off. 

Mar 23, 2015 03:02 AM
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Dana Basiliere
Rossi & Riina Real Estate - Williston, VT
Making deals "Happen"

I can't say I have done that for years.

Mar 23, 2015 02:57 AM
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Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I should also add that I am a swimmer.  I do not take my cellphone to the pool. Three or four times a week, I have an hour and a half or a little longer, to reconnect with my own thoughts, while unplugged from the matrix.

Mar 23, 2015 02:55 AM
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John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque Homes Realty - Albuquerque, NM
Honesty, Integrity, Results, Experienced. HIRE Me!

Only when we are on vacation or escape for a couple days to our cabin which has no internet and cell service.  Very liberating!

Mar 23, 2015 12:13 AM
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Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Sadly, do not remember a day that I have not logged into email.   In 2002 when traveling Europe, we stopped in at an Internet cafe every day.   

Mar 22, 2015 12:23 PM
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Debbie Laity
Cedaredge Land Company - Cedaredge, CO
Your Real Estate Resource for Delta County, CO

Well I kind of did that last week when I went to Utah. I did have to check emails, but that was all I did. I didn't feel guilty. 

Mar 22, 2015 12:10 PM
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Jill Murty, Realtor - Orange County, CA
Movoto - Laguna Niguel, CA

It's nice to leave it, but I rarely do!  I don't generally take my phone with me when I walk the dogs, but it's not like I'm walking the dogs all day, either.

Mar 22, 2015 11:46 AM
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hi Debbie -- I'm with Margaret Goss -- I can't recall that in recent history either. I'm not sure if the feeling would be guilty, liberated or just "lost".   

Mar 22, 2015 11:27 AM
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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Both!  I always take a peek at Facebook, my email and, AR, of course, but I'm never totally "off the grid."  It's part guilt and part "I have to know what's going on.'

Mar 23, 2015 12:47 PM
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Kimo Jarrett
Cyber Properties - Huntington Beach, CA
Pro Lifestyle Solutions

Yes and no, I don't feel guilty. I'm getting my freedom and reward for my performance.

Mar 23, 2015 12:12 PM
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Jill Winchel
Royal Shell Real Estate - The Koffman Group - Cape Coral, FL
We make it easy. You make it home.

Hi Debbie...No, I don't think I've made it a day without looking at something because I would feel guilty. 

Mar 23, 2015 08:12 AM
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Jerry Lucas
ABC Legal Docs LLC - Colorado Springs, CO
Notary Training, Consulting. Colorado Springs, CO

When camping or driving in rural or mountain areas, I may be off the grid with no WiFi or cell phone service.  I check messages when I get back to "civilization".

Taos, New Mexico has a single fiber optic line that connects the town to the internet backbone along I-25.  They have had 5 internet/cell phone outages since 2012.  Most recently, communications went out for 10 hours when a work crew cut the fiber optic line while digging a hole for a power line pole. 

Bigger cities have redundant internet connections.  But small towns and rural areas may rely on a single fiber optic line.  Like the Old West when the bad guys would cut the telegraph line.

Mar 23, 2015 04:55 AM
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Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County

Nope but I sure would like to have one of those days real soon! 

Mar 23, 2015 04:33 AM
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Dale Taylor
Re/Max 10 New Lenox Illinois http://dtaylor.remax.com - Frankfort, IL
Realtor = Chicago Illinois Homes Townhomes Condos

Sunday is that day for me, even at the risk of Clients dumping me because  I declare that day my off day, my refresh, my regenerate, my recharge day.  29 years in this business has taught me, if I don't give myself 1 consistent day off every week, I will be poorly managing my burnout potential.  Burnout shows up when just the thought of real estate irritates me.  Then, I have to give myself 1 or more mental-health days, until I start to feel the hunger  for real estate return.  My Clients have access to me as early as 7a to past 11p 6 days a week.  I had to teach myself not to feel guilty when I elect to have that 1 day for Dale resting from all the serving I unconditionally give to others throughout the week. 

Mar 23, 2015 04:22 AM
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Pat & Wayne Harriman
Harriman Real Estate, LLC (203) 672-4499 - Wallingford, CT
Broker/Owners, Wallingford CT Real Estate

We used to have days when we would totally disconnect, usually on a weekend, but nowadays so much of our business takes place through social media, email and even texts that it's next to impossible to stay away for a whole entire day. And we're OK with that. Better to check in on a regular basis than miss something that might need immediate attention!

Mar 23, 2015 03:55 AM
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Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Because my email goes to my phone and iPad, I am sorry to say that it is not the case with emails. But there are days when I don't answer what I don't have to. And yes, there are days I do not log into Social Media sites. For a reason. 

And that reason would be.... my sanity!

Mar 23, 2015 03:46 AM
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Shanna Hall
Real Estate Solutions - Kirkwood, MO
I love selling houses!!!St. Louis, MO 314-703-1311

I am always connected- unless I am out of the country- then I have someone else monitoring for me.  It is very liberating!

Mar 23, 2015 03:03 AM
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Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Debbie -  I have had days like that.  Usually when I'm on vacation.  When it happens, I feel both guilty and liberated at the same time!

Mar 23, 2015 02:53 AM
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Christi Farrington
Dagny's Real Estate - Wilton, CT
~ Your representative in Fairfield County, CT

What great question!  One of these days I will do just that and try to keep the guilt at a distance - hopefully.  Being tied to our 'stuff' can be exhausting. 

Mar 23, 2015 02:50 AM
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Liane Thomas, Top Listing Agent
Professional Realty Services® - Corona, CA
Bringing you Home!

I LOVE holidays for this reason! I am looking forward to Easter Sunday, a day with no phone, no text, no email. Just God, Family, and food.

Days like this make me feel recharged....not guilty, because they happen too infrequently.

Mar 23, 2015 02:42 AM
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Ric Mills
Keller Williams Southern Az - Tucson, AZ
Integrity, Honesty, and Vast Real Estate Knowledge

Rarely, but the guilt get's to me.  I try to stay connected but put off doing "work" if I am on a true vacation.  Everything goes to a cooperting agent and it work fine.

Mar 23, 2015 02:29 AM
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Ron Aguilar
Gateway Mortgage Group - Saint George, UT
Mortgage & Real Estate Advisor since 1995

you can do this if you choose but it makes the next time more time consuming

Mar 23, 2015 02:28 AM
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Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

I did this one weekend and people died on me so no more. Powering up is just like reading the newspaper, just routine. NOW not watching TV, I do that all the time. I get 100 emails in half a day so that would be crazy not to clear that out SOON.

Mar 23, 2015 02:19 AM
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Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I don't think I've gone an entire day without logging in somewhere, usually AR and facebook are a regular routine for me.

Mar 23, 2015 01:37 AM
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Cindy Davis
SD Home Source Realty - San Diego, CA

Even on my days off, I usually check email and texts. The few times I've been out of touch, I actually do feel refreshed and ready to go back to work. Hmmm...maybe there' a point here....:)

Mar 23, 2015 01:05 AM
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Richard Iarossi
Coldwell Banker Residential Brokerage - Crofton, MD
Crofton MD Real Estate, Annapolis MD Real Estate

Not yet, but I am starting to turn my phone off at night. If someone calls with an emergency, I leave them my home number...but it better be an emergency.

Mar 23, 2015 12:31 AM
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Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

I always check my messages , email and texts but do not go on active rain sometimes and check fb rarely.

Mar 22, 2015 11:10 PM
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Dianne Goode
Raleigh Cary Realty - Raleigh, NC
Realtor/Broker

The only time that happened was when I was i the hospital!  When I went to  Australia for a month in 2010, I carried an iPad and logged on to wireless networks at least once or twice a day.   The intertnet keeps me connected to family, friends, and the world, as well as to business.

Mar 22, 2015 10:47 PM
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Joe Pryor
The Virtual Real Estate Team - Oklahoma City, OK
REALTOR® - Oklahoma Investment Properties

I really don't think in those terms and social media does not rise to that level. It is normally about marketing or it is to connect with a friend.

Mar 22, 2015 10:35 PM
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Richard Robibero, e-Pro, ABR, SRS
Panorama R.E. Limited - Toronto, ON
Selling Your Home as if it were My Own!

No....

But I do remember pre-real estate career when I would travel for 1 month at a time to South America, Africa, Asia, and never brought a cell phone or smart phone. That was very liberating and I'd always come back thinking "I'm going to change!" It never lasted, I'm in business.

Mar 22, 2015 10:06 PM
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Realtor

Social media sites I can ignore without guilt. Email and texts, not so much and I really don't not check. Now, I might make a decision not to respond further, but I always see what's happening "just in case."

Mar 22, 2015 10:03 PM
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Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

I don't think I have ever not checked my emails since I had one! Don't know how I would feel, because it's never happened...

Mar 22, 2015 09:23 PM
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Ira Bodenstein
PNC Mortgage - Montclair, NJ
NMLS#: 445143

I will often take a day and not check email.  It is a liberating feeling but you need to be prepared for the Avalanche the next day. Still, it is well worth it. 

Mar 22, 2015 09:04 PM
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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I think, I always check my emails, texts, and social medias. It is just a habit, not the obligation.

Mar 22, 2015 05:27 PM
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Captain Wayne - Rowlett Real Estate School
Rowlett Real Estate School - Panama City, FL
Rowlett Real Estate School / Owner and Instructor

Hi Debbie, I can not say that I have ever missed a day logging into my mail.  I don't think I would ever feel guilty because I have a personal assistant that looks after things. :)

Mar 22, 2015 02:31 PM
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Larry Johnston
Broker, Friends & Neighbors Real Estate and Elkhart County Subdivisions, LLC - Elkhart, IN
Broker,Friends & Neighbors Real Estate, Elkhart,IN

I log onto my email, texts and of course AR, but I don't always make the social media sites, which I'm not at the guilty level yet.

Mar 22, 2015 02:23 PM
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Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

Very seldom

Jan 01, 2020 11:19 PM
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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

This is virtually impossible as our smartphones do not let us get away from business!

Aug 23, 2018 09:21 PM
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Dipti Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Andover, MA
On a team with Praful Thakkar

Yes. Praful is the main person running the business.

Aug 05, 2018 06:21 PM
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Gabe Sanders
Real Estate of Florida specializing in Martin County Residential Homes, Condos and Land Sales - Stuart, FL
Stuart Florida Real Estate

I can't remember one like that.

Jul 01, 2018 05:47 AM
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Tammy Adams ~ Realtor / Podcaster
Maricopa Real Estate Co - Maricopa, AZ
A Maricopa Agent who Works, Lives & Loves Maricopa

It doesn't happen oftern enough but I do try once in a blue moon. But with listings, I never want to miss a call from an agent if needed. So I do peek

Mar 29, 2015 01:33 PM
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Hank Dugie
Brockway Realty, LLC - League City, TX
Mr. League City

My phone notifies me anytime I receive a text/email/notification/etc and it eats at me until I respond.. I'd have to turn my phone off to not respond. However, I have had a couple days where I left my phone at the house. Very peaceful days.

Mar 29, 2015 09:00 AM
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Rob Thomas
Prestige Homes of The Tri Cities, Inc. CALL....423-341-6954 - Bristol, TN
Bristol TN-VA & Tri Cities Agent, ABR, GRI, e-Pro

Debbie Reynolds ...I actually have ....I always feel guilty, but I think it's OK!

Mar 29, 2015 08:35 AM
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Daniel Seider
BTRE Big Trees Real Estate - Arnold, CA

Yes, but I often pay the price. It is hard because so many depend on me to keepup. If I miss adayI often miss business but sometimes it is worth it.

Mar 29, 2015 02:53 AM
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Jim Miner
Miner Noh & Associates - Phoenix, AZ
Loan Modfication & Short Sale Specialist

I use those tools for my news input and sports, missing the NCAAs could not do it.  I like being on the grid and if I am snow shoeing I love having my GPS.

SMS is great.

Mar 24, 2015 08:43 AM
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Margaret Kapranos
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services - Novato, CA
San Francisco Bay Area REALTOR. 415-608-5070

I enjoy keeping up with friends on social media.  Email is a must-do, especially for clients.  Given the timing aspect of this business, it must be checked daily and several times at that.  What I hate about email is sorting through spam, delegating it to spam and wasting that time.  What I love about email is that you can document, document, document each conversation to ensure I heard it the way my client intended.

Mar 24, 2015 02:44 AM
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Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Debbie, a half day is about all for me, and that is enough to re-charge my batteries!!!

Mar 24, 2015 12:44 AM
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Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

That has never happened, but it sounds like a dream come true!

Mar 23, 2015 04:26 PM
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Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

That has never happened, but it sounds like a dream come true!

Mar 23, 2015 04:25 PM
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Diana Dahlberg
1 Month Realty - Pleasant Prairie, WI
Real Estate in Kenosha, WI since 1994 262-308-3563

To be honest, I have my days where I would love to turn the "world" off, however, I can't remember a day when I went off grid completely.  I'm looking forward to a day like that.

Mar 23, 2015 03:00 PM
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Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

When I'm away for a day I have no "connection to the world" but I always check email before I leave and again when I get home. Haven't gone away for all night in so long I barely remember it. The last time was a trip to visit my son a few years ago - and I took along a laptop so I could check email. 

Mar 23, 2015 03:23 AM