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Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • Green • GRI • HAFA • PSC Calabasas CA

I do not think, you can answer anonymously. You can ask a Q only.

In any case, I vote for Realtors. I can deal with clients, I'm hired to do so, but dealing with some agents.......can be oh so unnecessary unbearable:)

Aug 07, 2015 04:59 PM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint
Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

While we all think it is someone else...I believe we all have our moments.

Make it a great week.  Mark

Aug 07, 2015 03:28 PM
Sara Wagner
The Woodland Companies - Adams, WI
Stevens Point Rentals

All are human.

Oct 26, 2018 04:37 AM
Scott Godzyk
Godzyk Real Estate Services - Manchester, NH
One of the Manchester NH's area Leading Agents

I dont think any questions or answers should be allowed to be asked or answered anonymously. To answer the question, in any given week you can meet someone form any of those groups. The good thing is there are many more nice people than not so nice. 

Aug 07, 2015 10:23 PM
Jack Lewitz
IL Real Estate Specialists - Evanston, IL

 I would say real estate attorneys . I find the attorneys get so absorbed in responding to the other side that they sometimes forget the clients the represent and the process. For example I have seen attorney review letters go back and forth so many times right up to day if closing . I say this behavior has got to stop . 

Aug 07, 2015 10:12 PM
Annette Lawrence , Palm Harbor, FL 727-420-4041
ReMax Realtec Group - Palm Harbor, FL
Making FLORIDA Real Estate EZ

Self-absorbed: adj meaning preoccupied with one's thoughts, interests, etc.

Is a buyer walking into a new chapter in their lives preoccupied with their thoughts, interests, uncertainty..ect...

Is a sell walking into a new chapter and closing the last chapter preoccupied with their thoughts, interests, loss of society, challenge of facing the unknown..:

I would think it a erroneous effort to place a 'most' banner on either the buyer, or seller or the temptation to put the agent in the cross hairs.

The reality may be the label applies best based on the level of the responders own self absorbed condition.


Annette Lawrence


Aug 07, 2015 10:00 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

 Good Saturday morning Nancy. I would love to give you an honest answer.  I do know a lot of folks who think that they hung the sun and moon.

Aug 07, 2015 07:04 PM
Jill Murty, Realtor - Orange County, CA
Sunset Properties, Powered by Movoto - Laguna Niguel, CA

The most self-absorbed?  Real estate agents for sure.  I don't understand where the attitude comes from, but it's really unattractive.

Aug 07, 2015 02:53 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, Keller Williams Fox Cities - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

There is enough for all of them.

Apr 22, 2018 09:43 PM
Vick The Realtor .
Olympus Executive Realty INC. - Orlando, FL

Brokers! HA, Everytime I meet one they tell me several times that they are a Broker, I count it everytime! LOL , Once they get to three, I move on. I get a kick out of it. this happens at socials all the time, I have counted 8 all within minutes!

"I am the Broker"

"As the Broker"

"When I became A Broker"

"I am the broker owner"

"There are 15 agents at my office and I am the Broker" / When verified they have 5 and that includes the broker!

Aug 08, 2015 02:00 PM
Richard L. McKinney P.A.
Atlantic Shores Realty Expertise - Port St Lucie, FL
For Results that MOVE you on the Treasure Coast!

I don't know which of the three is more self absorbed. But I would rather deal with a buyer or seller than another Realtor any day! 

Aug 08, 2015 01:20 PM
Mike Rock
Complete Design - Granite Bay, CA
Granite Bay Luxury New Construction...For Less

me... just me. i have a ego the size of texas. :)  im not sure, i dont think there is a generalization you could make. IF I HAD TO SAY, after me me might be sellers

Aug 08, 2015 08:11 AM
Richie Alan Naggar
people first...then business Ran Right Realty - Riverside, CA
agent & author

My seller had to be reminded about what the buyer is thinking, the buyers agent and other misc. The buyers agent had to be told that other people are inquiring so be realistic if you want this done. The buyer had to be told, look, when you move in, make all your dream repairs. The seller is NOT doing everything...Everyone needs a nudge, bucket of water and sometimes a slap

Aug 08, 2015 05:58 AM
Spirit Messingham
Tierra Antigua Realty - Tucson, AZ
Third Generation Full-Time Realtor® 520 471-6900

Depends on the person and their personality.  I find myself correcting other agents a lot when they say "MY listing, My deal"..."you mean, the listing you represent, unless are you the sellers also?"  I never forget, this is not "my deal" rather I represent clients, it is their deal and they may be as "self absorded" as they want to me, the agents should not.  It should not be about us, but our clients we represent.

Aug 08, 2015 03:41 AM
Sandy Padula and Norm Padula, JD, GRI
HomeSmart Realty West & Lend Smart Mortgage, Llc. - Carlsbad, CA
Presence, Persistence & Perseverance

It all depends on the personality and of generalize is unfair to our clients, but my dear friends Jill Murty, Realtor - Serving Orange County, CA  and Inna Ivchenko were spot on.

Aug 08, 2015 12:47 AM