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I come from the school of thought that all parties need to walk away from the table feeling like a winner.
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John McCormack, CRS
Albuquerque, NM
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Anthony Acosta - ALLAT...
Atlanta, GA
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
2,233,392
I agree with Nina Hollander Desmond.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Anthony Acosta - ALLAT...
Atlanta, GA
1,231,903
Lots of good advice in comments before mine so I will just drink my coffee & go to Easter service.
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Anthony Acosta - ALLAT...
Atlanta, GA
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
5,593,983
Listen and digest before you respond!
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Desmond Neoh
North Bethesda, MD
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
1,157,847
This is an excellent question. However, your question has been publicly posted and I don't disclose negotiation tactics publicly as it could compromise negotiations for my clients by letting the other side know what tactics I use.
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Tony and Suzanne Marri...
Scottsdale, AZ
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
403,357
It depends on the situation and the parties with whom I'm negotiating.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
590,930
In ALL negotiations, just like a debate, YOU need to know your subject backwards and forward. YOU need to know YOUR adversary's strong points and vulnerabilities.
In the negotiations, YOU want to be firm but flexible and know in advance when and where to do each. Finally, each side needs to feel they got something even if they gave ground on other points.
As many have said here, a good negotiation is when it ends up being a win - win for ALL parties !
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DEANNA C. SMITH CERTIF...
Smith Mountain Lake, VA
1,549,870
I "make them an offer they can't refuse." And then there are horses heads... no wait, too much Godfather.
In all seriousness, one of the best lines I've ever heard was from a plumbing company we were negotiating with. The agreed upon price was higher than we would have liked and lower than he would have liked. He said "You know how I knew it was a good deal to make? When both parties feel uncomfortable. Both can feel like winners then."
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Pete Xavier
Pacific Palisades, CA
1,677,946
2,883,662
if you stop to consider that everyone wants the same thing, once you get yours, help them, get theirs....works better than not doing it...to be sure
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
1,466,257
3,417,759
After 30 years in real estate i have fine tuned teh art of marketing to attract offers. Getting offers is the biggest part as without them you can not negotiate. Once having them asking each buyer for their highest and best is a good start. From there you can work with the best to make it better for your client
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
4,434,277
There are many good ways to negotiate.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
421,035
Gather as much information about the people you are negotiating with so you can speak their language.
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
993,644
Depends on each situation and each parties ability to walk. One way is the BATNA process (Google it).
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
4,322,295
Desmond Neoh there are different styles of negotions - and to be an expert at that, I think you'll have to get the experience of learn...
Wish I could give all advice here in this small area...
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
5,215,787
That's a complext question. My feeling is it needs to be a win/win, and depending on the circumstances there are different ways to accomplish this
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Charlotte, NC
6,804,176
1,660,328
Whether or not people are aware of it, they spend a significant time of their day using their negotiation skills either in formal or informal routine interactions. It is a skill, some are good in it, some are not. Just work on it. Practice makes difference:)
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5,585,039
634,582
I agree with Wayne Martin that listening is your first step. Know what really matters and what you are willing to change.
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Absolutely try to strive for a win-win negotiation, where everyone feels good about the transaction. Makes for much easier negotiations down the road and a smoother closing.
3,075,066
8,276,264
3,454,821
It is not one-size-fits-all. Tactics vary by the situation. We want to cause the other side to feel like they won ... even if they didn't.
1,762,198
921,504
Know what you client is willing and able to do.
Then exceed their expectations.
To do that you need to know exactly what information the other side has, if any, and be prepared.
Commit to your client, don't get connected to the outcome.
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Know your walk away number and conditions prior to entering into the negotiations.